Wednesday, June 07, 2006

Why do we put ourselves in situations where we get hurt time and time again?
Is the human psyche so weak that it only feels complete when we being treated like doormat?
Ask any guy/girl which partner had the most effect on them and most of the time they will remember someone who used em like a door mat and not the one who waited hand and foot on them.Anyone got any clues on this?????

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cause, as human beings, we find reasons/convince ourselves that it will get better till we reach a point where it is no longer that easy to 'believe' and 'hope' for something which is not going to happen......

Insipid said...

But then why do we still stay when there no hope or faith left in that situation or person.Why do people sell then selfs short and suffer when they can move on?Be it the crap job, the abusive husband, the cheating girlfriend, the crappy friend etc etc etc.........Are we so desperate that we rather suffer than accept that something or someone is just not worth the effort!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

ITS CALLED THE COMFORT ZONE!! AFRAID OF CHANGE!

Anonymous said...

some things are just easier said than done