User/Abuser

When do we go from just a user to a dreaded abuser?

I smoke 20 blondes a day.User or abuser?
I watch 5 to 10 movies a week.User or abuser?
I drink 4-5 cups of coffee a day.User or abuser?
I spend 2-3 hours online a day.User or abuser?
My laptop spends 24 hours online a day.User or abuser?
I buy bout 10 magazines a month.User or abuser?


In the grand scheme of things do we ever know when we cross over? Do we realise that an action which was up until now ok is now over doing it? Is human nature so fundamently flawed that we will always live a life of excess? Are our blinkers so good that even as the damage is being done we are oblivious to the ramifications of our actions?

Just some questions flying through my head.A small bit of this ever moving mass/mess that i call my mind.